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Engagement rings history: here’s what you need to know

We have all heard wonderful stories about proposals being made in the most romantic, special, and sometimes simplest ways. All proposals are unique to the couple who got engaged, but most have one thing in common: the proposal was made with an engagement ring. You may think this habit has only been around for a few decades, but it actually dates back way further than that. Let’s delve into all you want to know about the lovely history of engagement rings.

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What's the fascinating history behind the tradition of engagement rings?

The tradition of engagement rings dates back to ancient Egypt around 2600 BC, where circular rings symbolized eternity and were worn on the fourth finger of the left hand—believed to connect directly to the heart via the "vena amoris." Romans later adopted this tradition using iron rings as commitment symbols.

Diamonds weren't introduced until the late 15th century when Archduke Maximilian of Austria proposed to Mary of Burgundy with a diamond-studded ring. However, diamond engagement rings as we know them today surged in popularity after South African diamond discoveries in 1866 and De Beers' legendary "Diamonds are Forever" marketing campaign in 1947.

Modern engagement rings offer endless customization options, from classic solitaires to elaborate halo settings, with various gemstone colors, shapes, and personalized engravings to create unique symbols of love.

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The origin of the engagement ring

Ancient Egypt

The tradition of engagement rings dates back to ancient Egypt, around 2600 BC. Egyptians believed that the circular shape symbolises eternity, and they wore these rings on the fourth finger of the left hand. This finger was thought to have a vein (vena amoris) that connected directly to the heart, symbolising an eternal bond of love. Rings were made from materials like gold for wealthier individuals, while those who couldn't afford it used metals like iron.

The Roman influence

The Romans adopted the engagement ring tradition, using iron rings as a sign of a woman's commitment to marriage. Over time, gold rings became more common among the affluent. The engagement ring became a formalised symbol of marriage agreements, and this practice would eventually spread through Western cultures.

Regional customs and historic ring types

Regional wearing customs: left, right and shared traditions


Different countries developed distinct habits for how and where engagement and wedding rings are worn. In many Anglophone countries the engagement ring is traditionally worn on the fourth finger of the left hand, a practice with roots in classical symbolism. In several continental European and Eastern European traditions the right hand is preferred, and in some places couples move the engagement ring from one hand to the other during the wedding ceremony. Nordic countries often have a custom of both partners wearing engagement or wedding rings, reflecting a more mutual expression of commitment. These variations are cultural norms rather than strict rules, and modern couples commonly choose what feels right for their relationship.

Historic ring types: gimmel, posie and puzzle rings


Gimmel or gimmal rings were popular from the late medieval period into the Renaissance. Made in two or three interlocking hoops, they could be separated and worn by the betrothed during courtship and reunited at marriage to form a single band, symbolising union. Posie rings are inscribed bands, often bearing short poems, mottos or vows on the inside; common from the 15th to 18th centuries, they served as private expressions of affection. Puzzle rings, made from multiple hinged bands that form a cohesive shape when assembled, worked as decorative jewellery and symbolic tests of fidelity or skill. Each type had a particular role in betrothal rituals and remains a source of inspiration for vintage-style designs today.
The first diamond engagement ring ever made, gifted to Mary of Burgundy by Archduke Maximilian of Austria

The introduction of diamonds in engagement rings

Diamonds didn't appear in engagement rings until the late 15th century. In 1477, Archduke Maximilian of Austria proposed to Mary of Burgundy with a diamond engagement ring that was custom-made, featuring diamonds arranged in the shape of an "M." This gesture popularised the idea of diamonds as a sign of love and commitment among European nobility.

The marriage proposal, diamond engagement ring included

In many ancient cultures, including Roman and early medieval societies, proposals were more of a formal agreement between families rather than personal, romantic gestures. These agreements often involved verbal contracts or written agreements, formalising the union. Rings were sometimes exchanged, but they were often made of iron or gold, and diamonds were not involved.
A man and woman share a moment, their eyes locked on the women’s modern engagement ring including a stunning diamond
The diamond engagement ring proposal as we know it today is fairly recent and is the direct result of the diamond discoveries made in South Africa in 1866. These mines, which initially belonged to individual miners, were cleverly developed and managed over the 1870s by a young Cecil Rhodes, who later founded the De Beers Mining Company in 1880.


This company is the ancestor of the diamond giant we know today that created the most iconic slogan in the industry ever: “Diamonds are forever”. It was launched in 1947 and was proclaimed the best slogan of the twentieth century in 1999 by the magazine Advertising Age.
This is probably the cleverest marketing campaign that was ever launched, which really changed people’s mentalities. In fact, it became common knowledge very quickly that a person could not propose to their partner without a diamond engagement ring. Furthermore, men were expected to spend two months' salary on the ring, but that has considerably changed today.
a modern day 1 carat solitaire diamond engagement ring in white gold with side diamonds, showing the versatility of modern engagement ring design

The modern-day diamond engagement ring

Today’s diamond engagement ring is more customizable than ever, allowing couples to tailor every aspect of the design to their personal style and story. Here are some key choices to consider when designing or choosing the perfect ring:

Ring styles


  • Solitaire: The classic choice, featuring a single diamond or gemstone, allowing it to take full focus.

  • Two-stone: Often symbolising partnership, this design showcases two stones representing the couple.

  • Three-stone: Symbolising the past, present, and future, this style features three diamonds or gemstones.

  • Halo: Surrounds the centre stone with smaller diamonds, creating a radiant and glamorous look.

  • Entourage: Similar to the halo, but with more detailed vintage-inspired embellishments.

  • Cocktail: A bold statement ring, featuring a large gemstone with an extravagant and decorative design, perfect for those who love to make a statement.


Ring setting


  • Prong setting: A classic choice that holds the diamond securely while showcasing its brilliance.

  • Halo setting: Features a circle of smaller diamonds around the centre stone, enhancing the ring’s sparkle.

  • Bezel setting: Surrounds the diamond with a metal rim, offering a sleek and secure look.

  • Pavé setting: The band is embedded with small diamonds, adding more dazzle to the ring.


Gemstone colour

While diamonds are often clear, you can choose from coloured gemstones to reflect your personal style or cultural preferences. Popular options include: Yellow, pink, sapphires, rubies or emeralds.

Gemstone shape

The shape of the centre stone dramatically impacts the ring’s appearance. Some popular shapes include:


  • Round: Timeless and brilliant.

  • Princess: A square shape with sharp angles for a modern look.

  • Oval: Elegant and elongating for the finger.

  • Cushion: Soft, rounded edges for a vintage feel.

  • Emerald: A rectangular shape with a more subtle sparkle, known for its art-deco aesthetic.


Custom engravings

Adding a personal engraving to an engagement ring is a meaningful way to customise your ring. This can be a significant date, initials, or a short phrase that holds sentimental value.

In essence, modern engagement rings offer endless possibilities for customization, allowing each couple to create a one-of-a-kind symbol of their love.

Fan of historical designs? Try art deco engagement rings

Whether you prefer the timeless elegance of a solitaire ring, the symbolic beauty of a three-stone design, or the bold statement of a cocktail ring, modern diamond engagement rings offer endless possibilities for personalization. With options for gemstone colour, shape, and custom engravings, the perfect ring can reflect both personal style and the unique story of your relationship.

If you're a fan of historical designs, why not explore the fascinating world of Art Deco engagement rings? Their intricate craftsmanship and vintage appeal might be just what you’re looking for.

  • Stephanie Hesters

  • BAUNAT Antwerp

  • As the Head of Diamond Buying at BAUNAT, Stephanie has an extensive knowledge of the diamond and the evolution of diamond prices. Thanks to her broad product knowledge gained throughout her years at BAUNAT and the Diamond Foundation Course by De Beers, Stephanie advises our customers interested in the investment side of diamonds to optimize every investment. To support her skills she has a bachelor’s degree in Business Management together with her master’s in Communication.

As the Head of Diamond Buying at BAUNAT, Stephanie has an extensive knowledge of the diamond and the evolution of diamond prices. Thanks to her broad product knowledge gained throughout her years at BAUNAT and the Diamond Foundation Course by De Beers, Stephanie advises our customers interested in the investment side of diamonds to optimize every investment. To support her skills she has a bachelor’s degree in Business Management together with her master’s in Communication.